Sunday, September 30, 2007

my pathetic recess week

I have been praying so hard for a break... and finally here it comes... and it goes... so fast... what have i been doing this week... i have a three day week , so lets start from thurs..

thurs: honestly I can't remember... shitty..
Fri: can't remember either...even more shitty...
Sat: tuition then shopping with darling..he bought me a two tops from fresh imp! very nice... =)
Sun: oh man... think is tuition then ah hua's 21st..
Mon: lunch with mr lee.. then bro's 17th birthday...then zz...
Tues: essay writing then dinner with darling;s family and then muging till about 1am at west coast mac... then supper then zz....so fat and lazy...
wed: essay writing then tuition then essay writing...
thurs: essay writing then late night movie," NoRoi the curse" (really freak me out)....
fri: consultation with ms yeo then shopping with darling... (coz he said he was feeling rich... i just had to 'help' him.. hahaha... he bought me another black dress fom Dorethy Perkins and a white long Ripcurl wallet.. gosh.. seeing the names, you might think I am so "she chi". bt i am NOT! sms me and i will tell u the price.. haha..
sat: tuition then headache.. then did nothing.. dead...
oh Gosh! its sun again! shitty... now here i am! went for tuition just now and back in hall.......dun feel like doing anything honestly...just signed up Amore again... costs 770 bucks.. for a year and a month.. very ex... broke now.. but ok got a free pink 1GB mp3..not too bad after all.... not doing anything and yet feeling so stressed.. dead dead...
I think I better end off...

time to do work..

haha.
what a meaningless post...

haha...

*Geez*

Sunday, September 23, 2007

Lovely sunday night


bliss is bless



There's a story behind this lovely pink daisy.
It is a campaign organised by some society to promote awareness for woman against HIV..,
I once read a newspaper atricle that talks about this wife(in her late thirties)who contracts HIV fromher husband. He contracted it because he womanise... I sympathised with this lady because she is a VICTIM that does not deserve such fate! Stupid husband...I think he deserve it.. Is there such law outside that protects such victims of HIV? I think that wives have every rights to sue their unfaithful husband... Worse still, he brought harm to his wife and children... I hope he stops passing the deadly virus around......
I hope this little daisy can serves as a reminder to all woman out there who looselysleeps around... Better be safe than sorry.
The msg reads "If he loves you, he respects you." and " A woman in full bloom is a woman in charge."




Tuesday, September 18, 2007

An analogy of "Fried Kway Tiao with cockles"

On a fateful Wednesday, my darling and me were discussing on "fried kway tiao with cockles" Somehow I wanted to eat them but he insisted that I CAN't coz its dangerous...

Feeling very upset, somehow I gave in and compromised... Though i asked for accomodation whereby i still eat them in moderation... somehow call its male's pride or what, he refused it...

Immediately the next day, Thursday, my boyfriend drove me out for supper and apologised for being harsh the day before... Awe.. girls are girls.. My heart melted for a while...

Somehow after supper, I heard a sentence that seemed to indicate that 'cockles eating' was ok.! and I thought there were hope for this issue to settle in my way! However bringing it up provoked him again and we got even more upset...

From midnight to dawn, somehow this issue was unsettled.
Tears rolled, tantrums thrown... aiyoyo.. Nobody gave in... I bet this must be the worst quarrel ever... =(

By Friday morning, we ended up again with me compromising; the no cockles rule.. We met up the same night and hmm.. The serene him actually said, 'I went back to think about it, i think i think I was wrong to stop you from 'eating cockles'. You were right, I shouldn't control you... you just have to ensure that you are free from danger and ' eat with strings attached'... However, its best when we 'share the cockles together someday later.'

By Sunday, after talking to rui and yen leng, I somehow made up my mind to go ahead with 'eating cockles'. I mean It doesn't mean I don't love my darling anymore, I feel that the 'amount of cockles' i am eating is reasonable and I am so sure my darling wants the best for me and he loves me lots. Furthermore, i feel that this always compromising on either side is unhealthy in a relationship. We need to start accomodating and supporting each other.I went ahead to eat the cockles.

Strangely enough, somehow today which is the following Tuesday,(2 days after i made my decision) he no longer harps on the 'cockles issue' and harp on feeling hurt. Instead, he feeds me with 'cockles' and help me 'wash' and 'cook' them such that they are clean for me to 'consume'. He ensures that i have the right 'untensils' before eating 'cockles'... =) he thought about how to make sure 'eating cockles remain safe for me'...

Through this incident, i finally see what is meant by this statement,

' To love is to sacrifice'

Although my darling hated the idea of me 'eating cockles', he didn't gave up on me, on us, when he knew i was insistent. Instead, he sacrifice his ego and accepted me. Now, he tries to build up my happiness and safety and 'cleans' my cockles. Wow... i am really grateful to God for I have such a concerned bf. You know how some guys insisted on their stands due to PRIDE and EGO, not entirely concerned...

I loved him, am loving him and will love him.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

Love

If love isn't sweet, then you aren't in love.
if love isn't tough, then you aren't in love.
If love isn't problem-free, then you aren't in love
If love can't bring you happiness more than sorrows, then why are you in love?

Love is the sharing and giving of two hearts together.

It often needs both parties to be accomodating, understanding and supportive. Once these essential qualities are diminishing, I think it's pointless to be in love...
Love has become a commitment, not an union.

Monday, September 10, 2007

Cruel Reality of present Man's world


are you wondering why he isn't paying attention to a Pretty lady sitting beside him???





*Look Down!*

















*hump*.....




Thursday, September 06, 2007

do you get wetter running or walking in the rain?

hmm.. doesn't this seems so common sensical? I would go for the running... since the time in the rain is lesser, the amount of water droplets that fall on you would be lesser...
BUT BUT BUT... after watching this video, you will get a shock!
part one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZcw4CBbkR4&mode=related&search=
part two: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXwBXfIa31g&mode=related&search=

so running or walking makes you wetter? *winks*